A Flurry of Activity!

Well since my last post on the 21st, Mistress has cum three times (which is much better), and I have been teased, slapped and generally abused a similar amount. So all is good and back to normal sex wise. My back is on the mend too (thankfully), not to sure about the car yet… might find out tomorrow.

Tonight was great, after Mistress came she kissed me while she got me hard and then straddled me and rode my cock for a while. I asked her to remove her bra, which she did and allowed me to touch and suck her gorgeous breasts. It felt so good to be inside her again, but eventually she got off me and stroked my cock a bit before standing over me and having me beg to lick her ass.

Mistress continued to stroke my cock hard while I licked her asshole, and while I was very hard I didn’t get too close to the edge where I needed to ask her to stop. Definitely feels good to have had these last few days of activity, I think we both needed them.


Still here…

Once again time has flown by… apologies for the lack of posts, I have been super busy setting up another blog – I forgot how much time it takes to start one from scratch and to get a worthwhile amount of content before visiting forums and trying to get people interested… oh well, it’s up and running now. It’s nothing to do with Femdom or Chastity so I won’t be linking from here, it’s about a completely separate passion of mine.

Anyway, so what’s been happening lately? Not so much… it was my birthday last weekend (47, still look 37 honest!) and Mistress R took me away for the night to Chester where we had a great time, if you are ever in Chester and fancy a cocktail, definitely go to Kuckoo, what a brilliant place that is.

Since then (actually since last Saturday) I’ve had a very bad back, much worse than it’s been for a long time, also someone drove into me last night and may have written off my car, and worst of all I’m having major pillow problems again. I mean for fucks sake, how difficult is it to get a pillow that doesn’t piss you off? I must have bought six pillows in the last twelve months and I always end up cutting them open and making one decent pillow out of two.

This time not only does the fucking thing collapse on itself during the night, but it’s the noisiest fucking material ever as well. Aaaaaaaaaaargh!

I know you don’t come here to read about my pillow problems, and believe me if I had anything better to write about then I would. But I haven’t, it’s just one of those kind of weeks, where you just want it to end so that you can have a rest on Saturday.

As you can see, I haven’t cum again since the 7th of October, and indeed Mistress hasn’t cum for nearly a week either… which is not good. We seem to keep having these bad weeks, which is a bit annoying, but sometimes things just happen. Hopefully things will improve soon!

Nice to see that the blog is still getting plenty of action (even if we’re not), the stats are holding up surprisingly well considering I haven’t posted anything for two weeks, so thanks to you all for staying interested.

An orgasm for me!

Apologies once more for the lack of posts of late, this is partly due to not really having anything to say, and also because I am spending some time setting up another (unrelated) blog. Anyone who blogs will tell you it takes longer than you think to set one up and mine is no different.

However, last night gave me something to write about.

Wednesday night was lovely, Mistress had a nice orgasm on my tongue and then she teased me pretty hard. I was certainly left desperate to cum but I was a little disappointed that Mistress hadn’t cum harder. I always feel a little ‘out of practice’ after a few days without worshiping Mistress’s gorgeous and thought I could have done better.

Thankfully last night I felt more sure of myself and Mistress certainly had a very hard orgasm (whether that was down to me or not is open to conjecture of course) so I felt a lot better about it. Mistress got me hard and I thought it was going to be another hard teasing session, but very quickly Mistress told me she wanted me inside her and I moved between her legs and slid my cock inside her warm and very wet pussy.

I do love it when Mistress rides my cock, but it feels different when I am on top, I don’t want to say ‘better’, maybe it’s the novelty of the situation, after all I don’t get to go on top very often any more! I was feeling pretty under control as I kissed Mistress while I gently slid my cock in and out of her, but I think Mistress wanted me to cum inside her sooner rather than later because very quickly she turned onto her side. Mistress knows this makes it harder for me because I can’t resist looking at her gorgeous ass and she knows this turns me on.

In the process of turning over however, Mistress managed to stub her toe on my knee (don’t even ask how) and things could have quickly gone off the boil… as I watched Mistress wincing in pain I could feel my cock wilting. Thankfully Mistress grabbed my cock and fed it back inside her before I completely lost it and I was soon fucking her as fast as I could without losing it.

I started to slow down a little, but Mistress ordered me to go faster and harder and I had to warn her that I couldn’t without cumming. She told me she wanted me to cum inside her and hearing that I picked up the pace and within not very long at all I could feel my cum exploding inside her. I pumped a good 34 days worth of cum into her soaking pussy and then she ordered me to lay down on my back.

Mistress quickly straddled my head and I licked her pussy as (some of) my cum oozed out into my mouth, it was very hot and I would have loved to have carried on licking Mistress much longer than she allowed.

So, inevitably it’s back to day one, but as Harry Haversackers said I don’t really feel like cumming sets me back to ’empty’ anymore. I think after you go a certain amount of time it would take more than one ‘proper’ orgasm to really go back to zero, which is a good thing of course, no one wants to go back to absolute zero after all. Much better to only have to fall back so far.

Right, I have to make chilli, I hope you’re all having a good weekend.

23 Years and still going strong!

Due to unforseen circumstances our Femdom session didn’t happen today, but we still had a nice day together celebrating 23 years of marriage. Session will probably now take place in a couple of weeks time all being well.

It’s twelve weeks until Christmas (did you know that?) and so, being as I don’t want to hit Christmas feeling and looking like a balloon, I am going back on the old Slimming World diet tomorrow. I hope to lose 2lbs a week until Christmas which would make me as low as I’ve been in living memory (well fifteen years anyway) As I recall when I actually went to Slimming World I got to 15St 10lbs, so that’s my minimum target right now. Annoyingly I do have a lot of meals out and things between now and Christmas but never mind, you can’t wait until life is out of the way to diet, that’s what people do in January and that never works either.

Keep on keepin on…

Busy, busy, busy… I don’t seem to get five minutes to post at the moment, especially during the week. Still, last night there was some action and after licking Mistress’s beautiful pussy to orgasm she set about teasing me very nicely. Mistress seems to be hitting my balls harder than she used to, which sometimes I really like and sometimes I don’t so much… it’s hard to tell until she actually does it how I feel about it. I think it depends how horny I am at any given moment. When I’m really horny I really love it, and want it even harder than she does it now… such a difficult thing for Mistress to gauge, but I’d rather have it than not have it, if you know what I mean. 🙂

I’ve been denied 24 days again already, it seems to rack up so quickly now. I can’t really imagine being allowed to cum at less than 20 days anymore, so I don’t even really think about it until after that… in fact I don’t think about it much at all to be honest. Denial is the new normal for me, it’s just that once every couple of months (?) I get to cum and then it’s back to denial again. But this is what I asked for after all and I do love it, I love that my cock is always hard when I want it to be, and I adore getting so close and then Mistress leaving me throbbing, can’t beat that feeling…

Last night I was also allowed to worship Mistress’s sexy ass while she stroked me, that was fantastic. It seems a long time since I was allowed to do that, although it was probably only a few weeks. I really love feeling my tongue pressing into her hole as she pounds my cock, how I don’t accidentally unload is quite incredible to me. Mistress assures me there will be more pussy worship tonight, but I doubt I would be allowed to taste her ass two nights in a row – you never know though…

Our next Femdom session should take place on Sunday, which just happens to be the date of our wedding anniversary as well (23 years), and as always I will post a report as soon as I can find a window!

Well worth a read…

Here’s a very interesting post from a blog called ‘Cuckolding Nathan’, which is well worth a read. I tried to leave a comment, but after four attempts and being told I wasn’t signed in every single time I gave up. Bah!

It’s a very hot post until the end when it all turns a bit sour… which is a shame, it must have been a very awkward situation for both Patty and Nathan.

Swinger’s Party #2

Sixteen days already…

It’s nearly six months into this chastity year and it’s clear that things have changed more quickly than I could ever really have hoped for. At this point last year I had been allowed eight orgasms and eventually went on to finish on a total of eighteen. This year since April 1st I’ve been allowed just three orgasms, with a finishing total as yet unknown but unlikely to be in double figures I would have thought. By contrast I’ve had six ruined orgasms (last year it was two), which is as many as I have had in any other year since 2011.

Tonight was great, Mistress had a lovely orgasm on my tongue and then after teasing me for a while, she rode my cock. It felt amazing but it was getting hard to hold back and I was super happy when she lifted off me and sank down onto my face and had me lick her pussy. Then she turned around and slipped my cock inside her again, before standing up and stroking my cock while I looked up at her gorgeous pussy and ass.

Mistress kindly allowed me to lick her ass twice as she stroked my cock hard, fortunately by this time I had managed to find my equilibrium and was able to hold back even though she was stroking me quite hard and even though I had my tongue buried in her sexy asshole. 🙂

Afterwards Mistress asked me how many days it had been and she was very surprised to learn that it was sixteen days already. She said she thought it was still in single figures! Ha.


Some of you might like to check out this blog which I just became aware of due to CollaredMichael leaving a comment on this blog.


Dropping off the face of the Earth…

Wow, eleven days without a post! That’s not very good is it? Well, there hasn’t been much to write about to be fair, and Mistress and I were on holiday… a few days on the ‘English Riviera’ (where, in the hottest September since time began, we experienced thunder and rainstorms!).

Still today was good, Mistress started off my day with some hard edging, in fact I must have come very, very close to ruining and I was half expecting my cock to leak when I eventually went soft. Later this afternoon Mistress got a lovely orgasm on my tongue, which I really enjoyed giving her. I was kind of going out of my way to make it extra good for her, and I think it worked. 🙂

Anyway, my big project for our week off was to finish my 12,000 word story, but unsurprisingly I haven’t. And in fact I think it’s dead in the water. I’m considering a total rewrite which will change it beyond all recognition, but I think it may be the only way to do it.

My original plan was… as I mentioned, I had this email from this guy who said he loved my stories but they made him feel bad about himself and he wished I would write something where the ‘wife’ didn’t enjoy her husband’s suffering so much, where it was more about their ‘love’ for each other.

Now I kind of think that for the guy, the wife ‘enjoying’ his suffering is a big part of the appeal, massive in fact. I mean may I refer the reader back to that Elastrator video… what made that video hot was the woman’s obvious excitement, and pretty much every caption or video out there is based on the woman ‘enjoying’ the subs ‘suffering’…

But still, I thought I would take it as a challenge, to write a story that was edgy, but that my reader would like and so I hatched the idea of a story which tricked the reader into thinking that he was reading about a slave and a (possibly pro-) domme, where the woman was in a relationship with another guy and she used this to taunt him. Kind of like a cuckold story, but with a different angle on it.

The twist at the end was that they were actually married and they had been playing out a fantasy scenario. The idea was also to show how you could play out quite an extreme scenario, without any harm because it was all ‘fantasy’.

But sadly this just hasn’t worked out. I’m not sure what I will do with the story now, it may end up a complete scrapper, or it might be rewritten so that it excludes those elements that make it unworkable, which will leave it rather less original, but with more potential appeal.

To be honest, the twist didn’t really work and I think that I would have received a lot of comments along the lines of ‘loved this until the stupid twist at the end, what a cop-out!’, so at least that has been avoided.

That effity-jeffity story…

Had another look at my long running (and very long) story, and I really can’t work out why it doesn’t work. I’m starting to think I’m either going to have to scrap it, or rewrite it completely. It just does not work and I’m very annoyed, not least because I have devoted a lot of time to it and I don’t want to throw away 12,000 words!

On a more positive note, last night Mistress had a lovely orgasm and I got my first teasing since my orgasm on Sunday. It was great, and my cock was super-hard, but then it was already super-hard on Monday morning (which I was very surprised about), it’s almost as though I hadn’t been allowed to cum at all. I seem to remember Harry Haversackers saying something to the effect that the longer you stay in chastity the less effect release has, and that seems to be the case. Which is great! Who wants to go into that post-orgasm lull and lack of horniness, I certainly don’t!

Femdom Session: 4th September 2016

My longest period of chastity yet has finally come to an end. My last orgasm was on the 23rd of June, which I reckon makes the new record 72 days, a whole ten days longer than the previous record, which was (coincidentally) set on the 23rd of June 2016!

I went into our session today, thinking it was more than likely that Mistress would have me cum and when it came down to it, I had absolutely no reservations about cumming whatsoever. Yes tomorrow I’ll be waking up on day one again, but it’s amazing how quickly it goes by and before you know it you’re two weeks in and then it’s not long until your first ruin and… then it’s 35 days and you can’t quite believe it already!

I think Mistress probably expected me to get close while she was stroking my cock, my tongue buried in her ass… but I held back magnificently. But after that she straddled me and rode my cock, looking down at me looking as sexy as hell with her red lipstick on and it started to get harder and harder to resist.

Mistress piled on the pressure, talking about how wet her pussy was and how good my cock felt inside her and how much I must want her to let me shoot in her pussy after so long. Eventually I cracked and told her I was getting close. Mistress smiled and pounded my cock harder still, telling me to cum inside her.

It felt pretty fucking amazing, I can tell you. I haven’t cum inside my gorgeous Mistress since April (134 days, also a new record), so that was something I was really longing to do. And her pussy felt incredible as she milked my cock dry… no sooner had I finished cumming and she was up and dropping her soaking pussy on my face for me to lick her clean. To be honest there wasn’t much to clean up, my cum was planted deep inside her, but it was still very hot anyway.

Mistress was pretty amazing throughout the whole session, I particularly liked when she talked about edging me and slapping the cum out of my balls. I really hope she does that one day soon. And watching her sliding down on my cock from behind was pretty awesome… Not to mention I had some very, very intense strap-on play. That was something else… very intense and definitely made me rethink the need for a bigger strap-on!

I am thinking seriously about getting another glass dildo like Mistress R’s, for my own use. Ages ago, Mistress used her dildo on my by mistake (she had her dildo in one hand and the ring end dildo in the other and she pushed hers inside me!). I knew straight away it wasn’t the ring-end one and it felt okay. Sometimes the ring end one just won’t stay inside me, which is why I bought the glass butt plug, but that is a bit too wide and is a nightmare to get out (Mistress certainly can’t do it with her nails) plus she can’t ‘fuck’ me with it. I would really like for Mistress to edge me and then fuck my ass until I ruin, I am sure that would be the most frustrating orgasm ever. 🙂

Mistress did look absolutely gorgeous today, she looks amazing when she’s full on into the session, so beautiful, sexy, hot and just fucking WOW!

Another awesome session, and another period of denial is over.